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How can I prevent myself from attracting the jerky type of men?
I been in a few relationships with some jerks and I just want to know how can i find out what it is within myself that causes me to attract these types of guys…I really want a decent guy and a happy healthy relationship…what are some steps I can take to ensure I get this
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about 1 year ago
Men suck…just become lesbian. Women are the only ones who will understand women.
about 1 year ago
Just because you ATTRACT them doesn’t mean you have to date them! If a guy seems dodgy on the first date or two, end it there. Are you dating only very good-looking men? Because many of them are total assholes. Try talking to some more average guys, they have better personalities because they don’t coast on their looks.
about 1 year ago
Set some boundaries for yourself. If it means staying home every week end then that is what you will have to do. Once people learn your not a push over and your looking for something better than a one night stand, you will attract the better kind.
about 1 year ago
First, jerks can see tru desperate needy women. Take time off in the dating world and spend time knowing yourself,lovingyourself and knowng what you want. Have fun but do not date till you know you are ready.
about 1 year ago
Love ur self have high confidence ,self steem and a dignity,this mixture will repelle any looser.
Remember that loosers r attracted to vulnerable ppl and intimitated by strong ones.
about 1 year ago
Well I hate to tell you this but women who ACCEPT jerky behavior from men do so habitually and until YOU change who YOU ARE and what you expect and demand from men – it will not change the men you attract and/or are attracted to. It’s just how relationships go.
Similar to how women in abusive relationships repeat that pattern we ALL do this in different ways in our relationships, marriages, lives, with our friends our own actions, behavior etc.
You don’t want any jerks then EXAMINE what it is in YOU that allows that from them and start focusing on changing that part of you. SOmetimes personal counseling may help you talk about it, identify the inner issues for yourself. THEN you can start expecting what you in reality need, want and deserve.
about 1 year ago
You get to choose up front – you know from experience that you can ask certain questions in the beginning that will identify “jerks”.
Find an activity you like – or a new activity – that tends to attract non-jerky guys. A bit of humor here but – guys in book clubs are maybe going to be too nice for you – then again you might find a couple who are well read with just the right amount of edge. Or take a class that has lots of guys – but the right type – maybe a rock climbing class. Certain activities attract certain types of guys.
If you don’t think so, consider this. If you signed up for an interior design course you would meet many women and men, a much higher than usual percentage of the men would be gay. Like I say, certain activities tend to attract a certain “type” of guy.
about 1 year ago
Don’t resond to jerks.