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How to Breakup with my girlfriend?
I’ve been with my girlfriend for almost 2 years now and I want to breakup with her. What’s is a way I can breakup with her? I don’t want her to be hurt, but how can I make this easy for both of us?
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about 1 year ago
If the sex is good don’t break up, what I’m saying is to give it some time.
about 1 year ago
after two years she’s going to be hurt, no break up is easy!
about 1 year ago
HONEY ITS GONNA HURT HER NO MATTER WHAT YOU DO SO DO IT
about 1 year ago
NOT ON THE PHONE
about 1 year ago
I think the best policy is honesty. Just tell her that you don’t think the relationship is working, maybe you’re better off as friends. However, you should tell her why you’re breaking up with her because most guys don’t, and it hurts even more not knowing why the one you love is leaving you. Be careful of your tone, and just be as nice as possible.
about 1 year ago
there is no easy way to do that she will be heart broken but if you at least want some dignity left and no look like a total jackass do it in person no text messages or phone calls!!!!!
about 1 year ago
You can’t make it easy unless you both know it needs to end. Just don’t make it worse by breaking up over text or something equally stupid, do it in person.
about 1 year ago
Sorry, but there is no easy way to do it. Unless the feeling is mutual, any way you do it she is still going to be hurt. Just be as caring and nice about it as possible, and do it in person.
about 1 year ago
It’s never easy but the best way I’ve ever used is e-mail. I sent my ex this to end it:
Dear Michele,
I don’t know what love is.
Love,
Force
I think that is the way to go.
about 1 year ago
well theres got to be a reason right??anyways dont .i made that mistake karma comes back to u someday it can hurt u real bad
about 1 year ago
It depends on the situation. If your not happy then tell her how you feel. Make sure it’s in person, because that’s the mature thing to do.
about 1 year ago
why do you want to break up with her? why did it take you two yrs to figure it out?
what ever the answers to these questions are, tell them to her. shes going to want to know. that is the best way to tell her. the truth…its going to hurt…there is no way for it NOT to hurt, but the sooner you tell her the better. dont’ waste her time just cause you’re scared, because it will end up being even more painful in the end when you cheat on her or do something else just to find a reason to leave her.
about 1 year ago
2 years? thats hard to break up with someone after dating them that long.
you should do it calmly and dont be a jerk about it
about 1 year ago
After 2 years, she is going to be hurt regardless of what you try to say or do.
You’ve just gotta be honest and up front with her. DEFINITELY do this in person, don’t dog it and break up thru text or IM.
If she isn’t expecting it she will be more hurt. If you guys have been on the decline for a while she might be expecting it.
Best of luck.
about 1 year ago
just tell her you dont feel the same way about her anymore. that you love her but arent in love with her, dont blame her or anything like that. there’s no way of not hurting her. dont make it a fight.
about 1 year ago
Tell her WHY. Once I asked my boyrfriend why like five times and he just kept mumbling something like he doesn’t think it will work but that made no sense at the time. It’s SO annoying when you don’t say why. I hate him for it.
about 1 year ago
Start off by not calling her as much.
Find excuses not to see her.
Hang out more with your friends.
Forget to call her back because you were busy.
She’ll get mad and may even break it off with you.
Agree with her decision and say “you know you’re right” maybe we should see other people.
about 1 year ago
Yeah this wont be easy to say good bye. You should have told us why you were ending after that long. Just cause isn’t a good reason and liking another girl oh well to bad but if you don’t see this working for marriage or this has been an off and on thing then you will have easier time to get out of it.
about 1 year ago
The best way to break up with her is in person , the worst thing you could do is break up with her over text or the phone. Be honest ,dont not break up with her because you dont want her to cry,or you feel bad . Do whats best for you.
Just say it like this …
I really think that its time for us to break up , you had nothing to do with it ,you dident do anything wrong i just need time for myself to be single … sorry.
and if she starts crying comfort her but not in a flirty way because then she might think , tthe crying will stop you from going out with her. i hope this works!