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How do I tell the guys that I am dating that I am dating other guys as well?
So I am dating these 2 guys. I really like the both of them. How should I go about telling them that I am dating the other with out it coming off mean. I don’t want them to think that I am not serious about becoming serious with one of them. I just want them to know that I am also dating other people so that it’s not a surprise.
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about 1 year ago
umm…i think it would be best to go ahead and choose which one you would rather be with because that might turn them off and make them think that you are playing around and you’re not serious
about 1 year ago
PICK WHO YOU LIKE THE BEST AND WHEN YOU FIND OUT TELL THE OTHER THAT YOU ARE NOT READY TO BE IN THE RELATIONSHIP AND HE CANT GET MAD BECAUSE YOU DONT WANT TO BE WITH HIM
about 1 year ago
It’s not always the easiest thing to tell a guy but it is important that they do know. I always try to find a good time to tell them, like after we’ve watched a movie or something. I’ll then say “I think it is really important that you know that I am dating another guy before things start to get too serious between us. I don’t want you to feel like I am cheating. I’m just trying to figure out what’s best for me. I understand if this makes you mad.” And then see what he has to say about the situation. If he has a problem with it and isn’t willing to wait around for you then you probably weren’t meant to be together in the first place. But make sure that you’re OK with him dating around as well while you two aren’t serious and if you are let him know. But if you aren’t OK with him seeing another girl at the same time then it isn’t very fair to be dating two guys at once your self, being how hypocritical it is.