Okay so I’m a goodie goodie 14 year old girl, who is a freshman. I would describe myself as respectable, real, cute, and funny. I’ve never had a boyfriend…Yea, embarrassing I know. Anyways, I see these girls who I instantly see flaws in (mean or fake) but they get ALL the guys. This tomboy girl stole this guy from me who was so close to starting a relationship with me. I don’t understand, what is it about me that makes me not dating material? This makes me somewhat depressed, I’m shy but when I’m around certain people I light up. When I’m in groups other girls instantly get the attention of guys even though I might be prettier than them (I don’t want to sound conceited or say that looks is all that matters, because it isn’t).
So what’s the deal?

Thanks for your appropriate and respectful answers! :)