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How can i talk to my girlfriend about some of my fantasies?
Question by Vaga}3ond: How can i talk to my girlfriend about some of my fantasies?
I have dated my girlfriend for 8 years now, so it’s safe to say that we are extremely comfortable with one another. Our sex life is great, as well as all the other aspects of our relationship. However, recently, I have been wanting to try new things in bed; but, I just don’t know how to bring them up to her. I don’t want her to look at me differently, for trying to bring these ‘fantasies’ into our relationship. I would love some black latex/handcuffs/whips, that kinky stuff..but i don’t know how to bring it up and I’m a little scared of how she might react to it. As i said, before, our sex life is great, but lately, I’ve been wanting to try new things. So how can I go about telling her, without making it all awkward or uncomfortable?–thanks
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Answer by Ender Wiggins
get a vasectomy
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about -3 years ago
just cone out and tell her.
about -3 years ago
Mention you heard someone else talking about it, and see her opinion of that someone. It’ll be much better than hearing “wtf are you doing?” in the bed.
about -3 years ago
this is what I will do, I would ask her
if she want to try something new in bed.
if she says no.. then stop there, if she show
any interest, then you need to ask her what
is her fantasy, if she is curtisy she will ask you
then you should express it. I think she will let you know
if is a bit exteme for her
about -3 years ago
Come out with your ideas like your telling her your mate has been trying such and such and ask her if she would ever be up for anything like that?
Even if she does reject the idea, it wont make a big impact if you have been together for 8 years!!
Hope this helped
about -3 years ago
Hi , I think this will help you. I know the title sounds a little bit sexist but it’s not. It will teach you how to generate attraction and keep the spark going for you and your loved one.
Blessings.
about -3 years ago
Rent the movie “Secretary” and watch it with her. If she seems at all interested, or finds the stuff in it at all appealing, tell her your thoughts on it.
IMDB link for the movie? http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0274812/